| IT'S NOT A CASE OF BUZZ WORDS Depression
is not a new disease of the 20th century. Sufferers are among
the elite. Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill, Edgar Allen Poe,
Mike Wallace, Joan Rivers and Dick Cavett are among the many who
have been afflicted.
Indications are that those who are more sensitive, creative and
intelligent are more prone to suffering from depression. One study
performed in the '80s found that 38% of 47 writers, poets and
artists had taken medication, sought psychoanalysis or had been
institutionalized for depression and bi-polar disorder. Another
study performed in the 80's showed that more creative people suffered
from emotional strife synonymous with certain neurosis. (Time-Life
Books, 1992)
THE GOOD NEWS
Although the problem appears to be hopeless, there is good news.
If you're going to have an illness, you want it to be depression.
It's the most easily treatable.
The afflicted needs to work at getting back in balance. Professional
counseling, support groups and the medical profession are learning
to work together to speed recovery.
The medication is a critical aspect of treatment. The new drugs
are marvelous even with the occasional discomfort of side effects.
They work to re-balance the synapses that are responsible for
the transmission of brain impulses.
Social workers and psychiatrists, too are much more skilled at
identifying symptoms today than ever. Group counseling, support
groups and crisis lines are more accessible. There's help and
information out there for those who have the courage and determination
to find it.
Much of the work, says Barbara Hayes, a licensed clinical social
worker who oversees a 12-session group that's been running throughout
the summer at Family Service DuPage, focuses on teaching cognitive
reasoning techniques. Those who participate in this therapy learn
to evaluate the validity of their thought processes and to recognize
distorted thinking patterns. Then they learn to restructure their
thought processes more positively and realistically. It's a sort
of de-programming that allows individuals to discover that there
are other ways to look at one's life experiences. Hayes has found
this kind of therapy most productive when participants have the
appropriate medical support. She assures her patients that "using
medication is not wimping out." Trying to pull yourself out
of depression without the proper medical attention just doesn't
work, she says. It's like a diabetic telling his pancreas to shoot
insulin into his system, she says.
Unfortunately current health care programs, both private insurance
and public aid, put unrealistic limits on treatment. All too often
they cut short coverage long before the patient is able to cope
without the medication and psychological support. When this happens
they "hamstring the health care providers," said Rose.
It's not at all uncommon for these programs to cut off the payment
for medication and counseling sessions just about the time a patient
starts to show some progress and before the patient is sufficiently
recovered. The only recourse in cases like that, short of going
"cold turkey", is to get on a waiting list for services
that are offered on a sliding scale fee. All too often the patient
is not financially able to handle that.
Fortunately it's the patient who does the real work of recovery.
Those who discover that they control of their own destiny have
the greatest hope of recovery. They can then learn how to maintain
balance in their lives and their habits. They practice being less
compulsive nurturers. They begin to trust themselves and be a
bit more open with others. They learn to maintain a childlike
attitude of gratitude and wonderment. And, they learn to be less
sensitive to outside turmoil.
One of the key ingredients to healing lies in getting away from
introspection and self-centeredness and to reach out to others.
Those who have been afflicted and have made the most progress
typically have found ways to give of themselves to others less
fortunate or to share their unique talents with the community...the
challenge being that a person who is severely depressed has great
difficulty breaking through his/her feelings of isolation.
One group of women developed a phone network that they said was
particularly helpful. One of the women is dealing with a pregnant
teenager, another with a financial problems, a third with the
death of a mother and a fourth with an overbearing aging mother.
These women discovered that being able to pick up the phone and
connect with someone who they knew would understand helped to
speed recovery. In short order, often a matter of minutes, they
managed to break the downward spiral of day-to-day crises. These
calls provided the ladies a life-line that they turn to before
the crisis could escalate. Most often within a very few minutes,
they found they could put the experience into perspective and
they'd find themselves laughing. And therein they found a cure,
because you simply can't be depressed and laugh at the same time.
Dr. Russo's findings confirm that depression is indeed a multi-factorial
disease that encompasses genetic, biological and environmental
factors. He voices the concerns of many when he says, "The
reason that depression is so pervasive is that society is losing
its sense of security and moral fiber in both the family and in
the community. As it's losing its fiber we're losing our sense
of purpose and personal value. At the same time we need to look
at the spiritual component that gives us a sense of wholeness
and peace when looking for solutions."
Those who understand depression agree, with Heddi, "I need
people, but I need people that I can be myself with. And, I need
to find a way to make sense out of the madness I face every day
I walk out my front door. When things get off balance, I need
to make some changes. Alone I can't do it."
NOTE: Although most of the quotes here are those of women, the
situation is far from a woman's problem. Women are simply more
susceptible to depression. "Role strain is a factor, according
to Barbara Hayes. "We are more aware of depression than we
were in the past, but there are more stresses in society today
for women to fulfill multiple roles. They make very heavy demands
upon themselves. Women traditionally are the nurturers and very
often in the process of nurturing others they forget to nurture
themselves....as a result, at some point, people just start caving
in."
The experts tell us that women today suffer twice as much depression
as men. While one in four women can expect to develop depression
during their lifetime, one in eight men can, too
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